Thursday, May 19, 2016

The Roman Road



  Here is a continuation of the Discipleship curriculum that I am helping a friend write on the basics of evangelism and the Romans Road
 
The Lesson


Introduction – One of the commandments that we have the most trouble with is the one about sharing our faith. We have already seen how in Matthew 28 we are to go out into the entire world to share the Gospel. This doesn’t mean we need to become a pastor or a missionary to do it. All you have to do is to start with the people you come in contact with on a daily basis. There are many ways that we can share our faith, but the key in all of this is having a personal relationship with that person. Relationships allow us to build trust so they will listen and will help you to share the Gospel out of love for them, not because you see them as a project. The last time you took advice from someone is probably because you had a relationship with them and that you also trusted them and that you knew that they had your best interest in mind.  So when you team up your relationship with people, the truth of the Gospel, and the work of the Holy Spirit anything is possible. In the next few chapters of our evangelism/discipleship discussion we will go over a few simple ways to help you present the Gospel.
The Roman’s Road – One of the ways we can share the Gospel is through what is called the Romans Road. It is a way we can share the Gospel through using the Book of Romans. None of the methods we present are meant to be the only way or even the best way to share the Gospel. These are simply tools that will allow you to walk through a Gospel presentation with someone when the time calls for it.
We are all sinners – The first concept is that everyone has sinned and we are in need of Salvation.  (Romans 3:10-23) Sin is our action and attitudes that separates us from God and His holiness.  The reason that sin separates us from God and His holiness is because God’s character prevents Him from being around it. Many people struggle with the concept that they are so bad they deserve condemnation but this only shows they do not know what sin is. Sin is a violation of God’s will, who created us all. Furthermore, not only do we sin our actions but are very hearts are sinful. God, in his righteousness, would be perfectly just and wiping us all out. Yet because He is a God of love He does not.
Our sin has consequences – The second concept of the Romans Road is that the consequences (or wages) of our sin is death (Romans 6:23). The final consequence of sin is our physical death and eternal separation from God but sin also leads to a spiritual death now. Spiritual death is our separation from God, our bondage to sin, and inability to save ourselves. Our sin doesn’t only have consequences for the future but leads to the brokenness we see in our world every day.
Jesus died to save us from our sin – The third concept is that Jesus died for our sins (Romans 5:8).  There is no way we can atone for our sins and to bring ourselves back into  a right relationship with God. But God loved us so much that He made the ultimate move and gave His own Son (who had never sinned) to be the ultimate sacrifice and took away our sin so that there is a way we can have a relationship with Him again.
We must accept this gift from God – The fourth concept is that they only way we receive God’s free gift is through accepting it (Romans 10:9-10:13).  Even though Jesus’ death and resurrection was for anyone and everyone, we still need to accept it.  We need to confess that Jesus is Lord and that our actions and attitude is what separated us from Him. Along with confessing, we also need to believe. Believing is putting into action what we say or confess. It doesn’t do much good to confess something if we don’t believe in it. Believing in what Christ has done for us means that we turn from our old ways of sin and self-glorification and we live to glorify God and to make Him known.
Salvation is found in Christ alone – The fifth concept is that salvation is through Christ alone (Romans 8:1;38-39; 5:1). Our salvation is based on Christ’s death and resurrection on the cross. There is no other way we can get to heaven, receive eternal life, or have peace with God. We cannot try and work our way to heaven, or find some other option because there is none. The only way to have peace with God and to be in right relationship with Him is through accepting the free gift of Jesus. The question is: will you receive God’s free gift of grace through faith in Christ Jesus?
Conclusion – The Roman’s Road is a quick, simple way to walk through what the Gospel is all about. One of its strengths is that it allows you to ground every step with some key verses (obviously all found in Romans). You could easily jot down the five concepts with the key verses somewhere in your Bible, or even keep it in your wallet. If you felt like you needed help explaining the Gospel to someone you could use this as a resource to help you give you confidence.
Application
1.  Take a few minutes to practice using the Roman’s Road with your discipler. Go over it a few times until you feel you can confidently walk someone through all of the concepts.
2.  Share with your discipler how you like to share the Gospel with others. What tools do you use if any?

3.  By this time (now at least sixteen weeks) you should have been able to identify a few people you want to share the Gospel with. This of course should be done by the prompting of the Spirit and should be in the context of relationships. However, the reason most of us never share is because of fear. Talk with your discipler about sharing the Gospel message with someone this week.


4. Continue to focus on building intentional relationships with people in your community. Always be looking for opportunities to share about your faith in Jesus.


Discussion Questions
1.  Discuss any hesitations you have about sharing the Gospel with someone. What are the steps you need to take to be confident?
2.  Why is that so many Christians know they should share the Gospel but do not do so? Have you felt this struggle in your own life?
3. If you have not already done so, make a plan with your discipler for you to share the Gospel with someone this week.

Monday, April 18, 2016

Who is God Part 2

  As stated earlier, I am helping a friend help write a discipleship curriculum for his church plant in Colorado.  Here is the chapter on who God is. 


As we begin our three week series on who God is and trying to wrap our heads around how the Trinity relates to each other and to us the creation, I would like to start off with a question that Joan Osborne’s ask in one of her more famous songs and that’s "What if God was one of us?" Is God just as dysfunctional and a big of a slob as we are, or is God someone or something that is greater than we are who has the world at His fingertips. We can dive deeper into God becoming one of us more in depth when we talk about who Jesus is, but one of the essential questions that we need to answer as a Christian or looking into the Christian faith is that who is this God and is He someone who is almighty as He is billed to be, or just a fake and a crutch that people rely on just to get through life. If we really claim that God is who He says He is, lets take a look at some of the essential characteristics of who God is.





The first characteristic that wee need to look at is that God is love. This characteristic along with His holiness is the basis for everything who He is and everything that God does. If God is the beginning and the end, and the creator of all things (will be discussed next) what is Gods motivation for doing it and what do these characteristics say about who He is as a being. What does it mean that God is love? We see in 1 John that not only God is love, but love originates from Him. Love seeks to be in a relationship that is open and that hides nothing. Love also means that there are consequences for wrong actions. Consequences does not mean God hates me, but it is designed to bring us back into a full relationship with God and to rely on Him only?


The second characteristic of God is His holiness. What does holiness mean and does God sit in some ivory tower untouched? The basic meaning of holiness means that God is without sin and to be seperate. Sin is more than just having a blemished record, or doing a wrong action, but it is a character flaw. The character flaw is putting the created above the Creator. Gods holiness disallows Him from being around things or people who have this character flaw. This character flaw takes us out of a relationship with God and if not corrected, will lead to an eternal separation from God. To go along with holiness is this idea of transcendant. The most basic definition of this is that God is greater than we are and no matter how hard we try, we can never be God, because we can never be all knowing, all powerful, or everywhere at once. With God being holy and sinless, this makes Him the Judge of all things. With God having never sinned, this means His character is without blemish and can see for things as how they really are. This means that God judges everything based on His very character and intention and not our corrupt character and intentions that aim to lift us up.


The third characteristic that we need to look at is the concept that God is eternal. To put in basic terms, He has no beginning or no end. God. Outside of the Trinity, this is one of the more difficult things to wrap our heads around because how can something have no beginning or end, and will always be there. If God were to just randomly appear or be formed from something, that would not make Him God because it would mean that He is apart of the creation and not the Creator. The major take away that I want people to come away with is that God will always be there, long before the earth was ever created, and even if the world were to somehow cease to exist He would still be in existence.


The fourth characteristic that belongs to God and that ties into the first concept of being eternal is that He is the Creator of all things. How can something not be in existence and create, that would be a foolish idea. One of the big ideas of evolution is that everything evolved from some sort of cosmic stew or a big bang. If this was true, how did the cosmic stew get formed or who made the big bang go bang? One of the cool things about being God is that He can create things out of nothing. The big theological word for this is ex nihlo. As we see through the first few chapters of Genesis, God spoke and it came into being. With being God and having that type of authority, He doesn’t need to be wearing the white lab coat and being that crazy sciencetist hoping what is brewing in lab will work out. He speaks and it happens, and there is no questions asked.


The fifth characteristic that God is, is that He is a relational God. God did not create the earth to walk away and leave it alone to run itself into the ground (this is also known as dualism). God wants to be in relationship with us and this is why He sent His very Son to earth to take the punishment four our sin. Just as a parent wants to be in a good relationship with their children, so does God. He does not want anything to come between us, but He also will let us suffer the consequences of our actions.


Application


1. Define who God is in your life. Is He non existent, a defiant thug, or a loving Father?


2. Is our goal to reach God to be in relationship with Him, or to make ourselves look good?


3. If God’s goal is to be in relationship with us, what are the things in our lives that help or hinder with this process?


Discussion Questions


1. After reading 1 John 4, what does love God to do with it and is there anything that you wont do for love?


2. If God is holy and His character unblemished, can or should we strive for those things and are they obtainable?


3. After reading Genesis 1-3, what are your observations and some of the consequences of this passage?

Sunday, April 10, 2016

The joy of the Lord

Todays message is going to be coming from the book of Nehemiah and lets cover a little history so we can understand are passage better before we come to it. The book starts out with Nehemiah pleading to God on the behalf of Israel and the city of Jerusalem. The city of Jerusalem is destroyed and a portion of Israel was hauled off into captivity for the sins and disobedience of the whole nation. God was using the captivity as a form of punishment for Israel disobedience. Nehemiah was reminded of this destruction and the consequences of Israel’s actions. He was mourning over what had happened and He was pleading with God to remember His promises and to keep the covenant. This promise or covenant is saying that the nation of Israel will be Gods people and dwell in His presence and that God is a gracious and forgiving God. Lets dive into our passage which is Nehemiah 2:1-10


1. In the month of Nisan in the twentieth year of King Artaxerxes, when wine was brought for him, I took the wine and gave it to the king. I had not been sad in his presence before, 2 so the king asked me, "Why does your face look so sad when you are not ill? This can be nothing but sadness of heart." I was very much afraid, 3 but I said to the king, "May the king live forever! Why should my face not look sad when the city where my ancestors are buried lies in ruins, and its gates have been destroyed by fire?" 4 The king said to me, "What is it you want?" Then I prayed to the God of heaven, 5 and I answered the king, "If it pleases the king and if your servant has found favor in his sight, let him send me to the city in Judah where my ancestors are buried so that I can rebuild it." 6 Then the king, with the queen sitting beside him, asked me, "How long will your journey take, and when will you get back?" It pleased the king to send me; so I set a time. 7 I also said to him, "If it pleases the king, may I have letters to the governors of Trans-Euphrates, so that they will provide me safe-conduct until I arrive in Judah? 8 And may I have a letter to Asaph, keeper of the royal park, so he will give me timber to make beams for the gates of the citadel by the temple and for the city wall and for the residence I will occupy?" And because the gracious hand of my God was on me, the king granted my requests. 9 So I went to the governors of Trans-Euphrates and gave them the king’s letters. The king had also sent army officers and cavalry with me. 10 When Sanballat the Horonite and Tobiah the Ammonite official heard about this, they were very much disturbed that someone had come to promote the welfare of the Israelites. Nehemiah 2:1-10


This passage is our starting point today and we will hit a few highlights throughout the rest of the book before we are done. There are several things that captured me about Nehemiah and some of the qualities that he displayed. The first quality that I see with him is one of vision. I think true vision is standing in the present, seeing what has been and seeing what could be and making it happen. As we see with this passage, Nehemiah saw the destruction of his homeland, and he wanted to make things right. It is more than just getting things done, because we can all get things done and have it fall apart again. True vision is seeing things being restored to who what they were meant to be. Nehemiah wanted the nation of Israel to be Gods people again, to have a place to worship and to have a city where they could live, worship and dwell with each other. When we have a vision, it is being passionate about something on steroids. Passion tends to fade and it tends to be what we want to do. Vision is about bringing Gods kingdom here on earth. Vision is seeking God and seeking His passion for us and combining it with follow through to impact the lives of others.

Having vision also takes courage. When Nehemiah made the request to the king, the king had every right to say no. If the king thought if it was a dumb enough of an idea, he could of had Nehemiah killed. The thing about vision and courage is that it often calls us out of our comfort zone. When we have a vision from God to be a bridge for someone or a community, it takes courage because it is often scary and it pushes us to grow and to rely on God. As John Wayne put it, Courage is being scared, but saddeling up anyway. When we get to this point, there is no backing out, no throwing in the towel, because there is to much on the line. There are people here who have been with the church from the very beginning, because of any circumstances, were there thoughts of throwing in the towel, quitting, questioning if it is really worth it. But having vision and courage is this plan is from God and if it is to work, it needs to be His plan and trusting that God will come through because if He doesn’t it wont work.

Having vision and courage also takes a risk assessment.  What good is having a vision or courage, if there is no real chance that failure could happen.  I am not saying that we should want or expect failure to happen, but we live a fairly safe life when failure is not an option.  So here is my question for us all, what is that God sized dream that you have, that they only way it will succeed is if God shows up in a mighty and powerful way.  None of us like failure, but God is calling each one of us to get up off of the couch in some way and live outside of our comfort zone.  It could be with reaching out and starting or continuing a relationship with someone, doing something you have never done before, moving on from a job, relationship or habit.

Courage also takes determination and dedication. Here is the thing about the rebuilding of the Temple and of the wall, its was going to take time. I am sure that Nehemiah would of loved everything to of been done in one day, but that wasn’t a reality. How many of us struggle with instant now and we become a hot mess when we don’t get what we want yesterday. It doesn’t help when we have instant coffee, we can find out what someone is thinking half way across the world instantly, or even a boss or significant other or child wanting that particular thing done that particular way done five minutes ago. How do we develop or have endurance for our community, relationships, church, work and any other number of things. Here are a couple of suggestions. The first one is a reminder that there are some things that is a race and not a sprint. When you have vision, courage and endurance, it means that you are in it for the long haul and there are no easy fixes. You are willing to see it through the end. To bower a popular fishing metaphor, we are not and should not be on the catch and release program. When we do this, we are saying that there is always something bigger, better, less trouble, or even not as much work. Another suggestion for endurance is prayer. There are various ways we can talk with God, find what we works best with you and do it. A third way to develop endurance is to have deep relationships. Find a person or a group of people that you can do life with. This means that you are in this together, to give encouragement, to be a sounding board and to kick each other in the butt when needed. The quickest way to loose endurance is to think we are doing it alone and we are the only ones who can do it. The fourth idea is that everybody does there part. Everybody had a job in rebuilding of the Temple and the wall surrounding Jerusalem. When everybody does their part, it makes everything go so much smoother. It also prevents people from thinking they need to do everything and bing superman. The last idea is treat people as people and things as things. How often do we treat objects or our pets better than our own family members? Just remember, we are to be with people and to encourage each other and use things and not vice versa.

When we are doing what God has called us to do, there is going to be opposition. If you have any sort of leadership responsibilities and you never have had someone disagree with you, you might be doing it wrong. In the story of Nehemiah, this person was Sanballat. The full confrontation can be found in chapter four. He was questioning everything that the Jews were doing and were even hurling insults. He even got the king to hault construction on the wall for awhile. When we face actual opposition, we have to ask ourselves and have listening conversations to decide wither the issues are really valid, or is it people not wanting to change. In any group setting when a decision is made, there are people who are going to disagree for various reasons. Then there is what Taylor Swift calls haters and yes haters going to hate. It is more than just having an opposition to someone or something. They try by every means to tear down, destroy and be a pain the the side. It often goes from disagreeing to character assination through gossip, and trying to turn people against what God is trying to do. They are often disgruntle or mad at either God or themselves, so if they are miserable, everyone else should be to. We need people to hold us accountable in our lives and there are Godly people who we can seek advice and counsel from, but here is my question for you all. Are we more concerned about what others have to say to us or about us, or what God has to say? The ultimate test to know what one is suppose to be doing is in so much the praise or discontent of people, but do we have the applause of God in our ear no mater the situation

The story of Nehemiah does finish up with the exile Jews returning home, the wall around Jerusalem being built and the Temple was finished. Starting in chapter 7, there is the gathering of Gods people together as a nation to consecrate themselves, to bring tithes into the temple and to hear the Word of the Lord. Israel realized who they were in relation to each other and to God. If they were to be called Gods people and for God to dwell among them, they need to follow Gods laws. Gods laws are not meant to be legalistic, but are to promote healthy boundaries in our relationship with God and others. In 8:10, there is a profound statement that we all should consider and that is the joy of the Lord is my strength. God wants to and desires to be in a relationship with us, and when we stay with in the healthy boundaries, God dwells among us, and He protects us. Our joy should not be in what we can do for God or the degrees we have on our wall, or the job title we carry at work. Our joy should come in that God dwells among us and He is our defender, protector and giver of life. We can have a great vision, everyone does their part, endurance, and have a handle on haters, what does it mean to have the joy of the Lord as our strength.

Having the joy of the Lord is realizing that it is not about me, but its about God. When it is about me, its about my talents, my agenda, and what I need to do or serve instead of what can God do through me, I am using the talents He has given me and I want to serve. I think a lot of this comes down to our attitude and how we perceive ourselves, God and others. I encourage everyone to read through Phillipians 2 this week and it is where Paul explains to us that we need to have the very same attitude of Jesus, who was God, and yet humbled Himself to become a servant and to die on a cross, so He could be raised again.

Another way to have joy in the Lord is through our time of worship. This goes beyond singing a few songs and hearing a long winded preacher. True worship is how we live our lives on a daily basis and who we are giving glory to. There are only two people we can give glory to, and that is wither ourselves or God. Worshiping God is about singing songs, reading ones Bible, but is also working for more than just a paycheck, it is how our children our raised, its having wholesome conversations with other people. True worship is connecting with God on a daily basis, in the greatness, to the mundane and even in the worse of it all. Worship is pledging allegiance to God and only to God and making Him first.

The third thing about joy is that it does not mean we are always happy. Happiness is the warm fuzzy feeling when someone buys us our meal. Joy is not so much based on what happens to us, but what our response is to life. Joy is going about life and praising God because of or in spite of our life circumstances. Joy so often is a conscience decision to thankful, content and humble. I think true joy is knowing who we are in God and that we do not have to earn anything because God freely gives grace and that we are one of His children and nothing can change that.

The joy of the Lord being our strength means that we do not have to do this life by ourselves or on our own strength. One of the hardest concepts to hear and learn from the Bible is that not only God loves us, but He adores us and wants to be in a relationship with us. He loves our warts and all, and the cool thing is, is that we do not have to stay the same way, God wants to change €us into His image if we allow Him to. When we have the joy of the Lord, it tends to lead to action and we see the world differently so that God can change it through us.

Sunday, March 20, 2016

Prayer

Prayer
Introduction – There are two very common questions when it comes to prayer. The first question is why do you pray and the second one is how do you pray.  These are questions Jesus disciples asked, too(Luke 11). Does one pray to change the mind of God, or so that we can get what we want or need, or do we pray so that we can hear what God has to say?  In this chapter we will explore how to prayer through a method called ACTS. There are multiple ways to pray, and this is just one method. We want to encourage you to explore other methods and find what works for you. From there we will explore a little bit of why we pray.
A.C.T.S –
Adoration – This is where we become familiar with who God is and what His characteristics are.  God is someone who is holy, forgiving, gracious, righteous and many other things.  All of these attributes are a part of God’s character and adoration is simply praising God for who He is.  Adoration is more than just telling God who is, which is important, but it is us realizing who God is and aligning ourselves with who He is and having God change us.  
Confession – Confession is more than just saying I am sorry but is moving from also doing something about it. It is about allowing God to change our character and allowing Him to have more control of our lives.  One of the most famous confessions of the Bible is found in Psalms 51, where King David confesses his affair with Bathsheba.  Confession is seeking Gods mercy and realizing that our words and actions have consequences and accepting those consequences. Confession is also seeking God’s forgiveness, so that our actions will not be held against us by God.  It doesn’t let us off the hook for those consequences, but confession and forgiveness brings us back into right relationship with God and we have nothing to hide from God.  
Thanksgiving – Whether we do this through song, writing, or spoken word it is telling God and the world what we are thankful for.  Prayer teaches us humility and grace, because in it we realize that we do not have it all together and we cannot do it by ourselves. A prayer of thanksgiving allows us to be reflective and think on how God has worked in our lives over a period of time. It helps broaden our view and when we are in the middle of living life and getting bogged down, a time of reflection and thanksgiving will remind us how God has been there before and will be again. Thanksgiving is a reminder that God’s grace is perfect and new every morning and we can be grateful for what God has done for us.  
Supplication – This is where we tell God what we need. God is the giver of all good and perfect gives and sometimes we receive those gifts, is if we go and ask for them.  Just a reminder, God is not Santa Clause and is not there to give us our every want and desire.  God wants to provide for our every need in this life and the only way He can do this is if we spend time with Him in prayer talking to Him and listening to what He has to say.
Why do we pray? – Knowing how to pray is one thing, but we all have to answer a question of why do we pray.  Is it so we can dictate the will of God and to get what we want? Or do we pray so that we may hear from God? To paraphrase a quote from C.S. Lewis, “I pray not to change the mind of God, but so God can change me.” We believe there are several reason to pray and want to take a moment to explore a few.
We pray to communicate to God – God wants and desires to be in communication with us.  Prayer is a way where we can communicate with God and He with us.  Whether it is us telling Him how our day is or asking for guidance, God wants to hear from us.  Prayer is also about listening.  How else are we supposed to here from God unless we take time to be quite and listen?  God may speak through that audible voice or through our conscience or through His word.  This allows God to build us up and to share the areas where we need to change and He gives us the power to change through prayer and the work of the Holy Spirit.
We pray to build our faith – We all submit to someone’s authority, whether it is ours, Gods, or someone else’s.  When we pray, we are admitting that we do not have it all together and we are submitting to God’s authority in our life.  This is a realization that God is the King of the Universe and we are His creation. We are taking the problem out of our hands and bringing it to the only one who can truly do something about it. And as we see God provide and answer prayer it will only build our faith all the more.
We pray to be in community with others – Prayer is something we can do with other believers and a way where we can intercede for each other.  Whether we are praying for peoples healing (James 5:13-20) or life struggles, prayer is something that can unite each other as fellow believers.  We can share life with each other through prayer for each other and we can intercede on someone else’s behalf.
We pray to be a part of God’s ministry – Many people struggle with prayer because they cannot wrap their minds around why God would change our circumstances based on us coming to Him. Why not just do what He is going to do anyway? The answer lies in realizing that God wants us to pray to give us the opportunity to participate in His ministry. This is why we preach the Gospel, serve the poor, and love our neighbor. Yes, God could do all those things and does not need us be He gives a chance to be a part of what He is doing in our world. Prayer is another part of this. God allows our prayers to change our circumstances because it gives us the chance to participate in His ministry.
Application
1. Spend some time with your discipler this week going through the ACTS model of prayer. Take some time to discuss any other models of prayer you would like to try and spend some time using those.
2. Commit to making prayer a more regular part of your daily life. With your discipler set some goals to be engaged in prayer and keep track of how you are doing.
3. As we discussed above, prayer helps us form Christian community. Take sometime this week to pray with some others. You may have to initiate the conversation and ask how you can pray for them.
4.  Explore different of prayers in the Bible such as ones of lamenting or prayers for healing, or of desperation. How are each of these important to the faith?
Discussion Questions
1.  Do you struggle with prayer, seeing God as a genie to grant your every wish? Or do you tend to struggle with why God would answer prayer at all?
2.  Read Psalm 51 together and discuss this passage. What do you observe about how David confesses? What would you like to adopt as a part of your own prayer of confession?
  
3.  How much of prayer is talking about or to God, and how much of it is listening? What are ways you can listen to God? What does it sound like or look like when God has spoken to you?
4.  Do you believe your prayers can change the circumstances around you? Why or why not? How does seeing prayer as participating in God’s ministry tie the two together?  

Tuesday, February 23, 2016

What is fasting

    A friend and I wrote a chapter on the basics of fasting and what it means within the Christian tradition.  There are even questions to ponder at the end.


The Lesson



Introduction – Within Christianity, there are several things that people do to express their faith and to help themselves grow. These practices or disciples guide us when we are interacting with God and it is a way for God to mold us and to shape our character. One of these disciplines we see in the Bible is called fasting. Let’s take a look at what fasting is and isn’t.



What Fasting is not – Fasting is not a diet program or way to lose weight. Even though one can fast meals the end goal is not about losing weight, but it is to hear from God. Fasting is setting aside extra time so that we can spend time in the presence of God and to be changed by Him. Fasting is also not a way to earn God’s grace or favor. We already have that in Jesus. This is simply a way of showing our dependence of God and desire to draw close to him.

What Fasting is –

Learning to Depend on God – Fasting is several things, and the first one is that it reveals what controls us. With a society that values and even promotes gluttony, fasting gives us a chance to break this habit or even character defining trait. The most common fast is from food but we can also fast from technology, entertainment, or any other thing that we feel the urge to do and if we don’t do it we are missing out. Fasting is about letting go of our control (and the things that control us) so that we can rely and trust on God and His grace. One of the popular ways we can do this is by taking time we would either be spending eating a meal or on the computer and spending it in a time of prayer and listening.
Learning Humility Before God – The second part of fating is that it helps us check our motivation. Psalms 69:10 states that fasting humbles the soul. Fasting allows us look at ourselves for who we are. Humility is learning that as broken as we might be we are loved greatly by God and He won’t let us stay incomplete and on the path of self-destruction. Humility is reaching out to God for Him to transform our lives.
Listening to God – The third part of fasting is that it is a chance for us to hear from God. When faced with a life decision fasting allows us to minimize the distractions so that we can hear from God. Whether it is about a job move, relational issues, or just finding out what the next step is, fasting allows us to focus on God and puts us into a position to hear what He has to say.
 


Application

1. Think through what takes a priority in your life over God. Consider the consequences of keeping these things in your life as a priority over Him.

2. Think through the things in your life you need to learn to depend on God for. Consider the consequences of depending on yourself instead of Him.

3. Create a fasting plan with your discipler that you two will do together. You can fast a meal, a type of food, social media, TV, or anything else as long as you use that time to focus on God. Decide what each of you will fast and pick a time period for the fast to last (a week, maybe 40 days). Review how the fast is going as you meet together and schedule some extra time to pray together this week during your fasting.


Discussion Questions


1. Are there things that we treat as more important that God? How can fasting us help us redirect our focus to Him?

2. What does it mean it be humble? How does fasting increase our humility?

3. Have you fasted before? If so, how did the experience go and what was your motivation behind it?




Homework

Read Matthew 4:1-17. What does it mean to live on every word that comes from Gods mouth?

What are the things we do that does not satisfy?

Read Matthew 6:16-18. What are our intentions when we do fast?

Thursday, January 21, 2016

Who is the Holy Spirit


  I am helping a friend write up some basic concepts of the Christian faith and here is my section on who the Holy Spirit is.  I know its very basic but it is something that I am proud of and it gives people something to ponder. 


Advocate – The first role of the Holy Spirit along with Jesus, is that they are our advocates. Just as someone would go to either your boss or the president of the United States on your behalf, that is what the Holy Spirit does for us with God. An advocate is a go between two parties and is a messenger between them. An advocate also speaks for us when we do not know what to say and also reminds us what we should and should not do. Another part of being an advocate is being a comforter. An advocate and comforter is someone who comes and walks alongside us encouraging us, but also telling the truth in love


Convictor – The second role of the Holy Spirit is a convictor. Just think of this as your conscience on steroids. We all get that feeling when we know when we have said or done something that we should not have, and this is called guilt. Where the Holy Spirit comes in is that the Holy Spirit lets us know what we did was wrong (guilt), but also provides a way to make it right if possible, and also provides the power not to make the same decision again.


Prompter- The opposite side of convictor is this idea of the Holy Spirit leading us to do or not to do something.  Whether it is the prompting to go give a certain amount, say something, or not going to a particular places.  If we allow, the Holy Spirit guides us to particular places, people and conversation that often have eternal consequences for the better. 


Transformer – Third role of the Holy spirit character development. What good would it be to have forgiveness of sins if we are not able to change our character. Our character is more than just right action or what we do when no one is but it is about where we stand with God. Our character is what we stand for, and it is either ourselves or God, and the Holy Spirit grows us into a more mature child of God and our actions are the fruit of who we are becoming.


Revealer – The fourth role of the Holy Spirit is revealer. Anything we know about God, whether through our prayer time, reading of our Bible, listening in church, or any other time is because the Holy Spirit revealed it to us. In 1 Corinthians 2:16 Paul tells us that through the Holy Spirit we can even have the mind of Christ. The Holy Spirit reveals more than just the will of God to us, the Holy Spirit reveals God Himself. Jesus says that through His Spirit we can abide in Him. The Spirit is what makes our relationship with the Lord possible.


Worship- The fifth role of the Holy Spirit is worship. One of the struggles that the people in the New Testament faced is the idea of when, where and who is allowed into worship. In John 4 Jesus explains that it is not so much about the time nor the place of worship, but are we worshiping in spirit and in truth. When the Holy Spirit is residing in us, we are the Temple of God and the Holy Spirit resides in us. Worship becomes more than just singing a few songs, tithing or listening to a sermon, but how we live our life. Worship is doing life on a day to day basis through the empowerment of the Holy Spirit


Abiding- this is where the rubber meets the road. Are we putting into practice what we know and how the Holy Spirit is leading. We can know things about God and about ourselves, but it is useless unless we put it into practice. Abiding is taking what we know and through the power of the Holy Spirit, putting it into practice. It is as simple as putting one foot in front of the other and moving forward. Abiding also means relationship. Relationships mean that it takes two people to be in full communication and sharing with each other. Just think of it as doing with your best friend, where the communication is always open and honesty and vulnerability are the key ingredients to making it work.
Application

1. How does one worship in spirit and in truth ona daily basis?





2. When sharing truth with each other, can we over sugar coat it and drown out what needs to be said and where does tact come in?





3. How do we have real relationships that move from social media to face to face and what are some of those challenges?




Homework

Read Galatians 5:16-25 and what characteristics are present in your life and which ones need to be instilled?





God can reveal Himself through such areas as fasting, prayer, cooperate or personal worship, and Journaling, Try one or two and see what God reveals to you