Malice in the Palice Part II

Here is a response to violence in sports and in life.  Now it doesn't provide all the answers to the tough questions, but I hope it is a start on the right path.  Forgiveness is a tough road to hoe, but it is so worth it

Most if not all world religions have some concept of forgiveness and ideas of restitution.  In Christianity, it is the central theme of our relationship with God and others.  We are called to seek forgiveness and to be forgiven and to seek restitution when possible.  Forgiveness isn’t an option, because God calls His followers to forgive others just as they were forgiven.  Forgiveness is a one way street, we are called to forgive and to seek forgiveness even if the other party isn’t willing.  In essence, forgiveness is a one way street.  When we do this, we do not earn a merit badge, but we do it because of our relationship with God and we are His children.  Reconciliation is a two way street where it takes both parties to work on issues that are present.  Now, reconciliation may not be possible on this side of heaven, because there needs to be a place for proper and healthy boundaries.  Reconciliation in a broken world is hard work, but it is worth it.  In a healthy and growing relationship, there needs to be forgiveness and reconciliation at work. 

             

So what makes forgiveness possible?  It has to be more than just saying I am sorry and trying to change.  If we can just get away with saying I’m sorry and saying a little prayer, we are not only cheapening the process, but Christ work on the cross is totally pointless.  The book of Hebrews is littered throughout of illustrations that Christ death and resurrection not only covered our sins, but it provides access to God.  One of the main illustrations is that the curtain has been torn and that we can enter into the holy of holies because of Christ work. The only thing we need to do is to accept the free gift that is given to us.  The Oval Office in the White House is one of the most protected rooms in the United States.  The only way the average citizen can gain access is if we receive an invitation from the President.  This is the same with God, they only way we can have access to God is through Christ invitation and sacrifice on the cross.  The only way we can experience true forgiveness and reconciliation with others, is if we accept and receive the pardon of God through Christ.

 Because of Christ sacrifice and that He is a member of the Trinity, God is the ultimate judge.  One of the reasons He is the ultimate judge is because He is the Creator of the universe.  All things begin and end with Him and He is the only one that is righteousness enough to set the standards to live by.  The only way we can keep up and live in those standards is through Christ living in and through us.    

  Getting back to the Minnesota/Ohio State brawl, one of the people involved by the name of Luke Witte (who happened to be suckered punched in the brawl and he ended up with a scratched eye and spent some time in the hospital.) wrote about his experience and how he was not only a changed basketball player after, but a changed person.  That incident changed his outlook on life, and it filled him with hatred to those who were involved and he never viewed the game of basketball same again.  He eventually became a minister and around the year 2000 he was contacted by some of the Minnesota players to seek some sort of relationship and to talk about what happened.  The relationship started with olive branch in the form of an email.  Those feelings of hatred came back to Luke, but through time, Gods grace and mercy, there was not only forgiveness with Luke and the people that were involved, but there was also reconciliation.  They have gotten together over the years and became friends.  They can talk about that night on the basketball court and as horrible event as it was, has brought them together and developed good friendships.  God is a God of reconciliation, He is calling us to be reconciled with Him first and foremost, but a response of that reconciliation, who is he calling us to forgive and even, just maybe be reconciled to here on earth.

Malice at the Palace

I am doing a two part blog on forgiveness, and the reason its two parts is really because its a long and it might be more tolerable to read in two sections. 

For those of you who are basketball fans, November 19, 2004 should ring a bell.  That was the night that the game known as Malice at the Palace took place.  A brawl took place between the Indiana Pacers and the Detroit Pistons, which lead to suspensions, fines, and people acquiring criminal records.  This event has scared basketball along with the teams and players that were involved for years to come.  One interesting fact is that one of the instigators of the brawl, years later changed his name to Meta World Peace.  There happened to be another basketball brawl that took place in 1972 between The Ohio State University and the Golden Gophers of Minnesota at Williams Arena in Minneapolis.  As I read about this incident from one of the players involved, there are several issues and ideas that came to mind. 

             

The first issue is violence in sports and how it is either celebrated or demonized.  This debate is more applicable to more than just hockey.   How far does one take fighting, and whose job is in to enforce the rules, especially the unwritten ones.  Other sports are also have violence issues.  Football is based on running people over and making tackles.  Some would argue that the violence of the sport is leading to serious health issues later in life. We can proclaim that we do not condone it but showing highlight after highlight of the latest fight or hard hit may say otherwise.  After the Malice at the Palace, ESPN and every other sports outlet showed highlights and discuss ramifications of the event.  So where is the line in the sand of supporting and condoning violence?

           

 Another issue that comes up with such brawls is the issue of punishment.  Where do we draw the line and how does one go about giving out punishment.  I think that punishment is a wrong way to go about things because its aim is often is to make an example of someone or a group of people.  I think that we can learn from other peoples wrongs, but making an example out of them is not the best way to go about things.  I do think that people should face some sort of “punishment,” but it’s the end goal that’s should be kept in mind.  Does punishment just lead to condemnation and shame, or does it allow for growth maturity and reconciliation.  If punishment does not lead and allow for reconciliation, its not worth doing, because when we often shame people and make examples out of them, it often leads down a dark road where healing and forgiveness can not be fully given or received.  It is more because I have to and not because I want to.  

 Now that we set up some of the problems, whats the solution and how to live it out.  That is the net blog post

Spring time

As I am writing this, today is the first day of spring and I am willing to say that I am tired of snow and I am ready for warmer weather.  I like snow as much as the net person, but after awhile, I get tired of the cold, shoveling and the hauling of wood to heat the house.  Snow does have a spiritual connection.  Just as snow covers the brown grass and makes everything white and new, so does the blood of Christ and His work on the cross.  The blood of Christ not only takes away our sins, but through Christ blood, it makes everything new and spotless.  The Christian life is not just about getting saved, which is important, but it is also growing in grace and becoming mature in Christ.  Just as we want our children to become mature adults, we should work on being mature Christians

             Springtime means green grass, warmer weather and longer days.  We also need a spring time in our spiritual lives as well.  The season of lent can be represent the winter time of putting old habits or bad habits to death.  I hope all of us took time during the Lenten season to draw closer to God and to put the things away that is hindering our relationship with Him.  But here is the brutal truth, if we don’t replace the old habits, with new growth that is holy, we will find something just as destructive to replace the things that we dealt with during lent.  We should take time to celebrate the work that has gone on in our lives over the last forty days, but how we need to continue to grow and mature.  

            So what are the areas that are the spring time in your life?  In springtime, there are green buds on the trees, and in order for those green buds to turn into leaves, they need to grow and to mature.  In essence, it takes work, and even some trial and error.  It is willing to trust God and work on the things that He is calling us to.  The Christian life is more than just not doing certain things, but it is also doing things.  Whether it is prayer, fasting, working on relationships, or just serving others, God’s grace in our lives demands a response.  Our salvation is not dependant on what we can to, but we should do things out of love and adoration for the Creator and what He has done for us.  I hope we can live out Micah 6:8, which is that we love justice, do mercy and walk humbly with our God.

Can anything good come from...

    I filled in for a pastor friend of mine awhile ago and here is the sermon in its essence.  I am going to take each of the points and epand them out here in the near future, but I wanted to give people a taste of what is to come.

One of my favorite statements to come from the Bible comes from the John 1.  In this verse, Nathaniel makes the sarcastic statement of “can anything good come from Nazareth?”  Phillips response is “lets go find out.”  In the following verses, Nathaniel has an encounters Jesus and becomes one of the twelve disciples.  How we respond to Jesus and who He says He is should impact our lives greatly.  It can be everything from Jesus is nothing more than a lying lunatic, to He is the Lord of my life and everything in between.  If we make Jesus the Lord of our life, which I hope we are on a path too, here are three ideas on how this Lordship affects our lives. 

            The first one is the idea of maturity.  Maturity is more than just knowing more facts about Jesus and knowing the books of the Bible forward and backward.  How does knowing that Jesus died for us make us change how we live our lives?  It is more than just doing things and not doing things.  Rules are important, but what are our intentions for doing or not doing something.  It has to be more than fire insurance, because this is really self centered Christianity and it makes my relationship with Jesus all about me.  It is moving from being self centered to fulfilling the great commandment, which is loving God with everything we have and loving our neighbor as ourselves.  When we put our relationship with God first, things tend to fall into place.  I can rattle off facts about the athletes in this years Super Bowl, but it doesn’t mean I know them.  It is shifting from knowing facts to knowing the person. 

           

The second idea is that the Lordship of Christ should change is the idea of community.  This idea of community doesn’t necessarily mean that we all get along all the time.  I would argue that if a church or any other organization is always arguing or always getting along, there is something wrong.  I think that the beginning of this idea of community is are we willing enough to share.  I see this a lot when people give prayer request, we can share just about anything as along as it is some one else.  For some reason, people don’t want to share their deep soul, and probably because we want to keep feeling the warm fuzzes.  Community is not only care to share, but are we sharing to do something about it.  Are we willing to come along side people no matter how dirty and messy it gets or how much they get on our nerves.  There are healthy boundaries that we need to follow, but are we willing to put them into place and use them. 

           

The third idea is evangelism.  Are we willing to break out of our country club mentality and share the gospel.  I will keep this short, but are we willing to let our friends and family not spend eternity in heaven.  There is this idea of personal evangelism and corporate evangelism. The former is what are you doing on a personal basis to reach others for God, and the latter is what is our churching doing to reach our community.  A person I know favorite statement about my home church is that if it were to fall of the end of the earth, would the community miss us?  This is true on a cooperate level, but also on a personal level.  If you personally ceased to exist would your circle of influence miss God’s presence that you provided?  If you received good news about being cancer free, wouldn’t you want to share it with the whole world?  The news we have on eternal life is much greater than becoming cancer free (becoming cancer free is a great thing).  So If we make Jesus the Lord of our Life, it means that we mature, live in healthy community, and tell others what Jesus has done for us

Hope and Faith

Recently I started reading the children’s book A Wrinkle in Time by Madeleine L'Engle.  The book is about a family who is missing their father and know one knows exactly where is or what he is doing, but they have hope that he is coming home soon.  The family encounters three mythical creatures and they take the two oldest siblings along with a friend to go save their father.  The mythical creatures are often quoting different proverbs in the original language.  One of the proverbs is about hope and how we all need it and have it get through life.  In essence, we all need something to believe in. 

            Not only does Hebrews 11 talk about hope, but it talks about faith, and in all reality faith is the mature aspect of hope.  Let me break it down, in my book there are two kinds of hope, the first kind of hope where we believe in something, but it doesn’t lead to action.  To put it in simple terms, this form of hope is thinking that your team is going to go out and win it all.  There are plenty of people who think that the Vikings are going to win the Super Bowl every year, but how many of them go out and buy the Super Bowl tickets or make plans to attend the victory parade at the beginning of the year.  My guess is that there are more people who don’t do that than who do.  Or to put it in more practical terms.  How many of us went out and bought supplies before our last major snow this month.  I would venture to guess most of us went out and got the milk, bread and snow melt before the snow got here.  With working at Wal Mart, we were busy they two days before we got hit with the snow, and our shelves were bare.  Now I am sure some of it was the chicken little the sky is falling, but people wanted to make sure they had food and other things before the snow got here.  If we do this, why don’t we do it with the Creator of the Universe who sits on the throne eternally.   

            As Hebrews 11:1 puts it, now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.  The author of Hebrews goes on and shares Bible hall of fame, or the hall of faith, of how different people through out the Bible had the faith and they put into practice what they knew.  Mature faith is knowing that we are not saved by our works, but we live out our lives as a response to what God has done for us and what He has promised us.  Through out the Bible there are references to God being there for us and guiding us through life.  To sum it up, God is reaching down willing and wanting to interact with us and through us, are we willing to reach out and do those things out of not only obedience, but having faith and hope that God will be there for us and will work through us. 

Stayin Connected

I am preaching this Sunday at a local church and the pastor asked me to preach on the churches vision statement and how it would look like to that specific congregation.  So some of the applications are very specific to that congregation, but I think that there is still plenty to chew on. I even included the churches vision statement on the top of the first page. 

SonLife connects with God and the world around us through the Good News of Jesus,
growing a church family to impact others with the grace and truth of Jesus.

43. The net day Jesus decided to leave for Galilee.  Finding Phillip, He said to him, “Follow Me.”  44. Phillip, like Andrew and Peter was from the town of Bethsaida.  45. Phillip found Nathanael and told him, “We have found the one Moses wrote about in the Law and about whom the prophets also wrote---- Jesus of Nazareth, the son of Joseph.”  46. Nazareth! Can anything good come there? Nathanial asked.  “Come and see” Phillip said.     John 1:43-46

  

       As I read this passage one of the thoughts that came to mind is that how we connect with other people, is often a sign how we are connecting with Jesus and who He is in our lives.  Even though Nathanial’s comment may be taken as a tongue in cheek, there is still validity in the comment of “can anything good come from Nazareth?”  How often do we make those comments about such places like West Virginia or Arkansas.  We often make comments that people from there are backwoodish, their family tree is a straight stick and that they are uneducated.  Ma and Pa Kettle would be the ideal picture of our sterotypes.  As much fun as we have with these type of jokes and often are made in good fun, but there are other stereotypes that are more serious and are more dangerous.  Whether it is a stereotype of unfriendly family members/friends to nationalities/religious beliefs like Iraq or Afghanistan, we put ourselves on alert, whether justifiable or not.  We tend to make them lesser than what they are or we elevate ourselves superior then what we really are.  Let’s explore the three different ways we connect or disconnect with God and who Jesus is in our lives and how these affect how we connect with other people

            The first way is more of a disconnection with Jesus, because we view Him as a liar or a lunatic.  Jesus is must be some guy from a far off time where He was delusional and He drank His own kool-aide.  He was some random guy wondering around Israel claiming to be the Messiah and in all reality He had a mental illness and should be committed to a mental institution.  He really believed that He was the Messiah and was willing to die for His delusions. 

Another idea to go along with this is the idea that Jesus was nothing more than a liar.  Jesus knew that He wasn’t the Messiah, but He didn’t care and it was all about deceiving people into following Him.  It was all about the deception and He had such an ego and Savior complex that He made up that He was the actually Messiah.  He played into the idea that the nation of Israel was looking for the coming Messiah to set up the kingdom.  He was willing to live this life so He could gain the status and the stardom from the people.  Both theories lead to the idea that this guy named Jesus died a pointless and meaningless death and He never came back from the dead.  To wrap this idea up is that since Jesus is not alive, His followers were delusional enough to create stories that Jesus did come back from the dead and they continued the lies that Jesus started.  So why believe in or put your trust in someone who is dead and had followers who kept the lies going.  Jesus at best is some historical figure who lived in first century Israel and now is dead.  With this idea, someone would discount Jesus and Christianity along with viewing them as either liars, naive, or even delusional.  So why would we even connect with someone who believes this and they connect to some other faith.

Another way we connect with Jesus is that our relationship with Him ranges from either a good teacher to He is my homeboy.  This view is that Jesus was a good teacher and that He was sent from God.  More or less that Jesus is a prophet sent from God to reveal something to us about God and how we should live.  But being God’s Son and the whole death and resurrection thing is out of the question.  Jesus was just a prophet and a good moral teacher, nothing more, and nothing less.  This idea puts him on the same level as Buddha, or Gandhi.  They are all equally human and they are someone that we can learn from and aspire to be.  In essence they are just good teachers.  The other end of this spectrum is that Jesus is our homeboy.  We believe that Jesus is God and that He did die for our sins and came back from the dead.  Jesus is more of a person to meet our needs and be our best friend.  This form of Christianity is really a self centered Christianity where I will follow Jesus and His rules as long as my needs are being met and that He gets me into heaven.  To put it in monopoly terms, Jesus is my get out of hell card or fire insurance.  If you are a movie/comic book fan, this form of Jesus is Tony Stark.  For those of you who don’t know, Tony Stark is Iron Man, and even though he has his enemies, most people want to be his friend because of his confidence, money and he can save the day.  This view of Jesus is that all Jesus needs to do is to be my friend, with all the warm and fuzzies and His sole purpose is to keep me safe and comfortable, I will follow Him.  How we relate to people through this idea is that as long as we follow the Golden Rule and to treat people the way you want to be treated.  The downfall of this is that without pushing them to have a deeper relationship each other and with God, our relationships with each other and God will never grow and we will become stagnant.

The third way is that we make Jesus the Lord of our lives.  Not only do we believe who He is, but He calls us to a deeper walk with Him and each other.  God’s will for our lives is the center of our being and who we are.  It is loving Him with everything we have and loving our neighbor as ourselves.  It is not sitting in some room locked away hoping to grow and staying away from the world, but it is letting God change us so that we can change the world.  Its not about what God can do for me, or even what I can do for God, but it is partnering with God and what He is doing.  It is allowing His Lordship to permeate everything we do and change who we are.  I think that when we take this Lordship of Christ for real in our personal lives and the life of this church, it will radically change everything.  How can Son Life be like Phillip and say, come with me because I have found the Messiah. 

The first one is that as a church, there needs to be intentional discipleship, no matter if you one or one hundred, it is learning how to be God’s vessel in a broken world.  Discipleship is more than just attending church, reading my Bible, or reading the latest Joyce Myers book.  Discipleship is more than learning facts about Jesus, or Bible characters, or how long it should of taken the Israelites to get from Egypt to the Promise Land.  A lot of these facts can be very informative and help with conversations, but here is the thing, if it doesn’t lead to maturity that results in action, what’s the point of knowing it.  True discipleship is not so much knowing facts, but doing what we know to be true and continuing to learn more and put that into practice.  In essence, it is growing up or maturing.  This can be done through prayer, our devotions, coming to church and putting it into practice.  It is also putting away things that are a hindrance to our relationship with God and others.  Just as a three piece suit would hinder a marathon runner, there are things in our personal lives that also hinder us.  It is dealing with them and putting them in their proper place. 

Just as we want to grow in our important earthly relationships, we should have the same desire for our relationship with God. Rules are not in relationships so we can check things off, but it is so we can set parameters in the relationships and have healthy boundaries. Our relationship with God and others isn’t so much about rules, but growing in our love for them and living in those boundaries.  Just as we don’t want to make our spouse mad because we love them so much, shouldn’t this be the same with God.  It is growing up and giving God our everything.  When God says love our enemies, He really means it, and its not a suggestion.  It is following the guidance of the Holy Spirit and not putting off what God is calling us to.  True discipleship always leads to maturity, and maturity leads to action.  Our works can not save us, but they are a response to what God has given us.  When we think about discipleship we often think of not doing things, whether it is drinking beer, gambling, gossip, pornography, but here’s the thing, if we don’t replace it with something Godly, something else will creep in and take its place that can be just as destructive.  I can not stress enough that true discipleship is Christian maturity.  It is putting into practice what we know about God and what He is calling us to do.  Christian maturity means we do things differently, whether its dating, raising our kids, interacting with coworkers, or dealing with people that you just don’t like.  It is loving God with everything we have and loving others as ourselves and through these two commandments, we do life.  It is a daily process of growing into who God has made us to be, which is not only holy, blameless and mature, but we are sons and daughters of the most High God, and if that doesn’t get you excited, you need your pulse checked

With discipleship also comes community.  As much as we try sometimes, we can not do this Christian life by ourselves, not matter how hard we try.  The Apostle Paul shares with us in I Corinthians that we are the body and the body has many parts.  If a part of the body isn’t doing its job, but body gets sick and becomes inefective.  Community is more than just coming to church on Sunday mornings and going to small groups on Sunday nights.  It is interacting with each other and pushing each other to grow.  It’s not asking how someone is doing and giving a response of everything is great.  So often we do this in our culture and not even think about it.  If I were to venture a guess why we do this, is because we do not want to do the hard work that requires us to be in community. Do we really want to tell other people that our marriage is on the rocks, or that I might be struggling with an addiction issue?  Not only do we not want to share these types of things, but we often think that I can make it better all by myself, I just have to pray harder.  Or when the church is taking prayer request, it is easy to give a praise or pray for someone else and their sickness, but it is never easy to ask for payer with our struggles.  It’s probably because we feel like we will be judged and that people will look less at us and maybe even gossip about us.  Its more than do we care enough to share, but do we care enough to do something about it.  Community requires trust and honesty, no matter how brutal it is sometimes.  It also requires forgiveness, understanding, communication, and listening.  Community does not mean we all agree the same thing on the same issues.  It is ok that someone likes the Packers or Cowboys, or dislikes the music of Prince.  We have to be willing to listen to, disagree, console, pray with and pray for people without calling them poopy heads.  It is also challenging each other to grow and calling each other out with God’s grace and love on certain issues.  If you know someone has an addiction, it is coming around them to not only to confront them out of love, but being there through the recovery process, know matter how messy it gets.  If a church always gets along and never gets into fights, or is always fighting there is something wrong.  Christian community starts with the Apostles Creed uniting in what we essentially believe and with the non essentials, we give grace and latitude.  

The third thing that I think SonLIfe is called to is outreach or evangelism.  There is the idea of personal evangelism in the areas of friends, family and work, but there is also this idea of how can the church reach out to the Wrenshall community.  So here is my question for you all.  If for some reason SonLife would drop off the face of the earth and no longer be around, would the Wrenshall community know the church is gone?  In essence, what kind of impact is SonLife having on this community?  Are the actions of SonLife more inward or outward focused?  In order for the church to survive there needs to be a healthy balance of both.  How do you all see yourself engaging the community around you?  There can not be true discipleship or community without outreach into the community that we live.  Knowing Wrenshall and graduating from this very school, there is a great impact that this church can have on this school and community. 

One way this church can get involved in this school is volunteering for different activities and building those relationships.  One easy way is maybe contacting the school principle and seeing if there are opportunities to volunteer.  One way is to offer tutoring to students who are struggling in school.  Through tutoring, it’s providing way in for a relationship with that student and that has endless possibilities.  Or maybe helping chaperone a school event, to helping a new teacher with classroom decoration or making copies.  Or how about the church adopting a class, preferably an elementary class and following them through their education.  Whether its tutoring, providing things for the classroom, chaperoning events, and willing to help pay for background checks are all great ideas to get plugged in.  While I was in college, I had a husband and wife “adopt” me and a few of my friends.  We would go over to their house a couple times a semester for a meal a great home cooked meal (because college students are always looking for those) and even better conversations.  There are many great memories there and I am still in contact with my adoptive parents. 

There is also providing needs to the members of not only this church community, but the Wrenshall community.  Most guys I know like to do projects, whether it is building something or taking something apart, it feels good to work with our hands.  Not only is it a great way to do something for someone else and connect them with SonLife, but also take time during these projects to connect with the people of the church.  A lot of formative memories and bonding experiences are formed , especially with guys.  It can be a chance to invite people who are loosely connected with the church to this project, and it allows the building of relationships in a non threatening way.  It could lead to the opening of doors for a deeper and more meaningful conversation.  Another way to connect with people is knowing families that have had a major life event and either providing child care, meals, or even mowing lawns to help ease some of the stress.  One of my favorite things to do, is sharing a meal with someone, especially if it’s a home cooked meal.  The kitchen table is one of the most intimate places in the house in my book.  It shows community, solidarity, and openness when a meal is shared around the kitchen table.  One of my favorite memories is one day I stopped over at the Johnson’s to see Chad and Sarah.  It got to be dinner time and I was invited to eat with them and that meal was a lot of fun of the sharing back of forth. 

So in closing, here is my question to you SonLife, how do you see yourselves connecting with God grace and the world around us with the good news of Jesus?  How and who we see Jesus as, is how we are going to connect with our world and here is a reminder, He is Lord of All irregardless of what we think.  So when we make Him the Lord of our Life, not only can we change the world, but even maybe even light it on fire with the grace of God

Dwelling in Unity

  One of the things that my church is doing is that we are going through the book of Hebrews and this may have caused a few jokes about coffee.  (How do you know that God drinks coffee?  Because He Brews it)  My pastor mapped it out where we started wit Hebrews 1 at the beginning of Advent and the book will take us right through Easter.  My pastor put together a daily reading plan for the sermons that are going to be preached.  The whole church is encouraged to do the daily readings and it will help with the understanding of that weeks sermon.  Also, the small groups of the church are going along with the sermons and discussing them and finding ways to help apply that weeks sermon.  This is really nice because the church is on the same page and hopefully we are discussing, learning and applying the same things.  This has gotten me thinking about not only being on the same page, but this idea of dwelling in unity. 

  We all talk about unity and how we need it, but what does it look like.  Does it mean we all think alike?  If it does, life would get boring really fast.  Does it mean striving for a goal? There is that, but whats the goal and who or what decides that goal?  Once we decide what the goal is, how are we getting there?  The NFL playoffs are starting this weekend and the goal of every team is to win a Super Bowl, but how its done can be different.  If we look at the 2000 Baltimore Ravens, they had a great defense and an offense that got the job done.  The San Fransisco teams of the late 80's had a prolific offense, and a good defense. Once you know who you are and what you want to accomplish, the net steps are before you.

  So what does unity look like, especially in the church.  I don't think that it means we are all to look alike, think alike, and all do the same thing.  That would be boring and I think that would really limit God and how we see God.  As my home church goes through Hebrews together I hope that we become unified in Christ Jesus and that we can be of one accord, not only with our relationship with God, and others.  This is how I see it happening. 

  The first idea can be found in the High Priestly prayer found in John 17.  This is where Jesus prays for the church, He not only prays that we are one as He is one with the Father, but that He dwells with in us.  The only way we can start to be of one accord is having a relationship with God and being in right relationship with Him.  Just as the Trinity dwells in a relational unity, we need to be in that same relationship with others.  The only way that is possible is through a relationship with Jesus.  Jesus is the one that makes unity possible, the Holy Spirit is the appler/convicter and God the Father came up with the grand scheme.  In essence, our relationship with others is a reflection of how our relationship with God is going. 

  Not only do we need to dwell in unity with God and others, we to remind ourselves that we are one body.  We have to know where we fit in the body and use those gifts.  When we try and use gifts that we don't have or dont use the gifts we have, the Body of Christ suffers and the world does not get a full or a wrong picture of who God really is.  God has given each one of us gifts to use for His glory and when we use those gifts, we are glorifying God and it is an act of worship

  The third idea of unity is that we put into practice what we know and interact with each other.  In Colossians 3, Paul exhorts the church and tells them and us to let the word of Christ dwell in you richly, teaching and admonishing one another in all wisdom, singing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, with thankfulness in your hearts to God. And whatever you do, in word or deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.  Most importantly, unity is not only an interaction with God, but it is interacting with others.  It is letting God live through us in everything we do and our interactions with others.  This means that we do life together, and it is more than just having fun together.  It is worshiping together and apart of it is coming along side each other and correcting attitudes and actions with grace and humility.  It is not lording over, but it is helping a brother or sister out.  It is helping each other grow in grace maturity. 

  Unity does not always mean that we all think the same way or do the same things, but finding having the end result be the same.  It is helping each other grow in grace and maturity, and being able to have difficult conversation.  We just might be able to learn something if we focus more on listening first and then reacting.  Tod often we want to get our point across and in the process we are bringing other people down.  When we have the mind of Christ, dwelling in unity often means interacting with each other in grace, humility, love and understanding.  It is being firm and gentle on the essentials and providing grace and liberty on the non essentials